Thursday, December 6, 2012

Artist's painting of First Dog chosen for Obamas' holiday card

Larassa Kabel never expected to be chosen when she submitted her painting to be considered for the White House holiday card this September.

The Des Moines, Iowa, artist said "it was a very surreal moment," when she got the call from the White House secretary's office while cooking pizza for her family one night, hearing that first lady Michelle Obama had chosen her piece.

The White House released the 2012 Christmas card, painted by Kabel, this morning.

"I had very, very, very low expectations about it in the first place," Kabel told ABC News. She said her husband kept asking her afterwards, "Did I dream that you're going to do this?"

"No, I had the same dream," she would reply. "I'm pretty sure this is true."

It has been a big year for the two-time Obama supporter. Kabel's husband's band opened for Bruce Springsteen at President Obama's rally in Des Moines, his last rally before election night. At that point, the couple knew her painting had been selected, but had to keep that secret.

The black-and-white illustration features the Obama family Portuguese water dog. It shows a jaunty Bo, knee-deep in snow in front of a blurred White House.

Kabel's own canine companion, Beans - a Boston Terrier/Pug mix - follows her to the studio each day and sits by her side while she earns her livelihood painting, drawing and printing.

"It's not like we're sitting here chatting or anything," Kabel said. "But when I don't bring him to the studio I constantly am peeking over my shoulder to look where he would normally be. When he's not there I feel his absence."

The dog in the portrait is sporting a scarf, something Kabel says was an addition she made to the photo the White House sent out for her as part of the competition.

"They asked us to do an interpretation of the photo, and I did need to change a couple of things," Kabel said. "Black animals are difficult to represent and have them read as three-dimensional."

To make the snow look realistic, Kabel used a tool most people have inside their bathrooms: a toothbrush.

"It splatters so it looks like snow," Kabel said.

The White House won't be paying Kabel for her portrait of Bo ("I'm living on glory," she said when asked about compensation), but she and her husband will attend the White House holiday party on Dec. 18.

She sees meeting the president and Mrs. Obama as a highlight of the trip, but she is also excited to do something many White House guests are familiar with: celebrity watch.

"I've never seen anyone famous, so I'm like, who will be at the party?" Kabel said. "I'm looking for anybody."

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Reference and Education: Agriculture

Some of these programs are every bit as detailed and concise as any you will find at the upper echelon schools. ?And not only that, a lot of these schools have excellent track records when it comes to finding jobs for their grads as well. ?In fact, it is probably a good idea to check out some of them even before you go scouting the expensive universities.

One of the best ? if not the number one ? places to investigate is the renowned Regional Occupational Program (ROP). ?They have a stellar reputation and also offer well over 100 different courses, most of which are totally tuition free.

Source: http://mrobrians.blogspot.com/2012/12/agriculture.html

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Wednesday, December 5, 2012

NATO calls on North Korea to cancel rocket launch

BRUSSELS (Reuters) - NATO on Wednesday called on North Korea to cancel plans for its second rocket launch of 2012, saying it would violate U.N. resolutions and could further destabilize the Korean peninsula.

NATO ambassadors expressed "grave concern at North Korea's declared intent to launch a rocket using ballistic missile technology this month", an alliance statement said.

"Such an act would be in direct violation of United Nations Security Council Resolutions 1718 and 1874. It would risk exacerbating tensions in the region and further destabilizing the Korean peninsula," it said.

"We call on the North Korean authorities to meet their obligations under international law and comply fully with the will of the international community as expressed by the United Nations Security Council and the moratorium on missile launches," it said.

North Korea's state news agency announced the decision to launch another space satellite on Saturday. Media reports say North Korea told neighbors it would take a path similar to that planned for a failed rocket launch in April.

Russia and China urged North Korea on Monday not to go ahead with the planned rocket launch, with Moscow saying it would violate restrictions imposed by the U.N. Security Council.

(Reporting by Adrian Croft; editing by Andrew Roche)

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/nato-calls-north-korea-cancel-rocket-launch-180049375.html

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Mortgage Loophole Leaves Many Widows ... - AOL Real Estate

Mortgage loophole leaves widows fighting foreclosure.Foreclosure has seemingly affected the majority of residents living in the U.S. in the past few years. Some have experienced it themselves, while others know a family member or friend who has gone through the process. One group that has been hit hard by the crisis are widowed wives.

Several women across the country who have lost their husbands -- who, in many cases, were the sole holder of their homes' mortgages -- are fighting to stay in their properties, according to The New York Times.

One factor that may keep many of these women from being able to stay in their residences is that numerous lenders have certain rules and regulations pertaining to spouses whose names are not on the mortgages of their homes, the paper notes.

In one case, the newspaper reports, a Florida woman who lost her husband to kidney failure in 2011 was not named on home loan forms. Because of this, she cannot get her home's lender to lower her rates and terms, nor have them accept her checks for monthly payments. Should she continue to be unable to do this, foreclosure could be imminent.

To amend this oversight, a number of Americans have asked the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau to step in and implement regulation that will help these widows remain in their homes and current on their loans, according to the Times.

"Surviving spouses are trapped without a clear way to preserve their home," Housing and Economic Rights Advocates lawyer Arabelle Malinis told the newspaper.

Should legislation be put in place by the CFPB in the near future, many older borrowers who are added to their mortgages for their homes may look to lower their monthly payments.

According to a study by AARP, roughly 3.5 million loans among Americans ages 50 and older were delinquent as of December 2011. With this high rate, senior borrowers might want to consider speaking with lenders and other debtors regarding a reduction in debt. Without doing so, the demographic could see a rise in foreclosures on their homes, which could deter not only their personal finances, but housing conditions nationwide as well.

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Tuesday, December 4, 2012

EADS confirms shareholder structure talks

PARIS (Reuters) - EADS confirmed that its French and German stakeholders were discussing potential changes to the shareholding structure and corporate governance at the European aerospace and defense group.

The company said it was taking an active role in the discussions, which it said were intended to "preserve and enhance" the interests of all stakeholders.

People familiar with the matter said on Sunday that France and Germany appeared to be very close to agreeing a new shareholder structure after talks over the weekend.

One person briefed on the Paris talks said they focused on capping state shareholdings in EADS at 30 percent, giving France and Germany voting shares of 12 percent each and Spain a voting share of 4 percent inside a core state shareholder group.

This would leave a 2 percent buffer of voting stock that states could still possibly acquire later, the person said, echoing a report in the Frankfurter Allgemeine Zeitung. Spain owns 5.5 percent.

EADS did not give any details of what was being discussed in its statement, saying it would make a further announcement as appropriate.

"The currently discussed potential changes are likely to require the approval of EADS NV shareholders and there can be no certainty that these discussions will be conclusive," EADS said.

Two sources familiar with the discussions said on Sunday that a deal could be reached by Monday, paving the way for an eventual exit by its industrial shareholders - German carmaker Daimler and French media group Lagardere.

EADS is due to hold an investor meeting on Monday at which the outlines of the company's new structure could be presented.

EADS' structure has been an urgent political issue since $45 billion merger talks with UK arms firm BAE Systems collapsed in October, exposing the fragility of existing arrangements.

(Reporting by Alexandra Hudson and Alexander Huebner in Berlin, Emmanuel Jarry and James Regan in Paris; Editing by Blaise Robinson and Christian Plumb)

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/eads-confirms-shareholder-structure-talks-072728855--finance.html

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Emily Yoffe.

Emily Yoffe

Photograph by Teresa Castracane.

Emily Yoffe, aka Dear Prudence, is on Washingtonpost.com weekly to chat live with readers. An edited?transcript of the chat is below. (Sign up here?to get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week. Read Prudie?s?Slate columns?here. Send questions to Prudence at prudence@slate.com.)

Emily Yoffe: Good afternoon, everyone. I look forward to your questions.

Q. Boyfriend's Family: My boyfriend warned me ahead of time that his family was a handful, but nothing could of prepared me for Thanksgiving. N-words and gay slurs and an uncle who referred to Secretary Clinton by the worst word toward women imaginable. I am not trying to be a snob, but I can't comprehend raising a child around these people. Although we are in med school a thousand miles away, we are thinking about settling down near his hometown. I talked to him about the outright bigotry his family embraces, and he is both embarrassed and also nonapologetic?I shouldn't judge them for, amongst other things, referring to our president in a manner that you wouldn't even publish. He's a great, decent guy, but his family is not one I would want to be a part of, and I'm having a hard time reconciling the two.

A: Even if one's family is composed of the rudest, crudest racists and misogynists, it can be a big leap to ask someone to write them off. Fortunately, your boyfriend ended up being nothing like these people. He's embarrassed by them. But he also feels some instinctive sense of loyalty to the people who raised him, and whom he knows in a more complicated way than you possibly could. I can understand your wanting him to denounce these idiots wholesale, but you should be able see how that might have felt presumptuous to him. You say he's your boyfriend, not yet your fianc?. So it seems premature to start dictating that you want to limit the exposure of your nonexistent children to them. You have made your understandable shock clear, so now you should back off. Let him spend some time considering what it must have been like to see his loved ones through your eyes. That will be more powerful that your trying to get him to sever ties with the only family he has.

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Q. Hearing Intimate Moments From Neighbors: I own and live in a semiattached house in a large city. The house adjacent to mine is owned by an landlord and rented out. The tenants and I share the wall between our master bedrooms. In a nutshell, I hear EVERY MINUTE of their intimate encounters. I'm in no way asking how to get them to stop. They are consenting adults and can be as intimate as they wish. My question is what to do about being woken up several times a week by their cries of ecstasy. I have so far been able to resist knocking my knuckles on the wall to alert them to their racket, but I'm an early riser and am really not interested in learning on a four-or-five-night-a-week basis how good the male partner is. Please advise.

A: These people can be identified the smiles on their faces and the bags under their eyes. You own, they rent. So you're the one who's going to have to invest in the sound proofing. Get a consultant and find out what can be done on your end to muffle the joy. Once you do that, if you still can hear the blow by blow, you need to go over and have a conversation with them. You can say that unfortunately the walls between your homes aren't thick enough, and that the sound between the bedrooms leaks through. You can say you've mitigated this as much as you can, but for their privacy, and your sleep, and if they could keep it down (per Bill Clinton, you don't have to specify what "it" is) you'd all be more comfortable.

Q. Abused Friend: My friend from school is being abused at home, where she lives with her grandparents and her mother. I've known for a few months that her grandma calls her names, and makes fun of her, but I thought very little of it because they were only words. Recently though, her grandma has become more and more violent, to the extent of burning her personal belongings, and burning her with cigarettes. I want to call Social Services, but I am afraid they will take her away and put her up for adoption, in which case I may never see her again, or they will investigate, decide it's not abuse, and then it will make things worse for her. Also, she has confided to me that she doesn't want to leave, just kill herself. I am very afraid for her well being, but I'm afraid to lose her. What should I do?

A: What a tragic situation and of course your friend is terrified to stay and more terrified of what would happen if she left. However, this girl is in imminent danger. Her grandmother has committed crimes against her that should be prosecuted. Please tell your parents, and together you should all go to the principal of the school right away to get started on getting this girl safe.

Q. Re: Boyfriend's Family: I don't think the OP is wrong for considering her future with boyfriend. It doesn't sound like the boyfriend is willing to limit contact with his family, so these folks are going to present quite a problem in the future, should the OP and boyfriend marry. Certainly all the letters you receive from people having in-law problems should be a flashing red warning to your readers about how important it is to choose your partner carefully. OP is right to be concerned, and I would advise her to hold off on making future plans with her boyfriend unless/until the issues can be discussed and resolved to her satisfaction.

A: Sure I see you could make the argument that she should get out now if this is his family and he's not ready to call them out on what they are. However, few family relationships come with such an easy on-off switch. He could be thinking, "Well I grew up with these people, and I'm nothing like them. I'm not ready to sever relations with them because of fear of exposing our not-yet-conceived children to their grandparents." It's no defense of his family to say that he might have understandably started feeling defensive because she was asking him to see them only as an outsider would. Now that he's introduced her to them, it's opened up a conversation between them. I don't think it's time for an ultimatum.

Q. Family Drama: I am a single, successful career woman who has been dating a wonderful, charming man for the past two years. With the holidays approaching I have a problem?my boyfriend would like to be included in my family events. However, my parents and siblings absolutely abhor my boyfriend. They disapprove of our significant age gap, his divorce, his behavior based on meeting him once at a party, where, in their opinion, he drank too much. They consider him a cheap, womanizing drunk who is taking advantage of me. At Thanksgiving he wondered whether I would like to have him accompany me to family dinner. Now with Christmas looming?how am I going to tell my atheist boyfriend that my family will have a fit if he shows up for midnight mass?

A: This is the season of people behaving abominably. It's time you did some truth-telling to both sides. You have to let your boyfriend know that you've been struggling with your family's disapproval of him. Explain they dislike the age difference between you and his divorce. Tell them they have always been hyper-judgmental and you are having a very hard time dealing with their negative remarks about him. Then you tell your family that you have been in love with a fine man for two years who is a permanent part of your life. If they want you to part of theirs, it's time they behaved with the true spirit of the season and welcomed him into their homes. If they refuse, then you should say you are going to have to start a new tradition of being with kind and loving people for the holidays. So you and your boyfriend will be celebrating Christmas together away from them.

Source: http://feeds.slate.com/click.phdo?i=02187d7b50b8962eb2a495b5788a5a43

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Genetic data shows that skin cancer risk includes more than UV ...

? Skin Cancer news ? Dec 04, 2012

t?s common knowledge that excessive UV exposure from sunlight raises your chances for skin cancer, but predicting whether someone will actually develop skin cancer remains difficult. In a new research report, scientists from the University of Alabama at Birmingham (UAB) and the University of Wisconsin?Madison show that the risk for skin cancer involves numerous genetic factors including family history, ethnicity, and genetic variations specific to each individual. Using these factors, the researchers developed a more precise model for assessing risk, which is published in the December 2012 issue of the journal Genetics.

?We hope this study will ultimately contribute toward a better understanding of the genetics of complex traits and diseases,? said Ana In?s V?zquez, PhD, lead author of the study from UAB?s Department of Biostatistics. ?Such an understanding is essential for the development of methods that can be used for early and improved prediction of genetic predisposition to diseases.?

To make this discovery, the scientists used phenotypic and genetic information from more than 5,000 familial participants in the Framingham Heart Study to develop various models for assessing skin cancer risk. The researchers? most basic risk evaluation model included standard risk factors such as sex. Additional predictive models were developed by adding information on family history, ethnicity, and data from 41,000 genetic markers across the human genome. The predictive power of each model was evaluated, with the best prediction accuracy obtained from models that include all predictive risk factors - those standard risk factors plus family history, ethnicity and genetic markers.

?Although there is no doubt that sun exposure increases your risk for skin cancer,? said Mark Johnston, Editor-in-Chief of the journal Genetics, ?it isn?t clear how much of a risk it poses to each individual. This new model for assessing risk should prove useful to health care providers and public health officials, who play a crucial role in educating people about preventing skin cancer.?

CITATION: Ana I. Vazquez, Gustavo de los Campos, Yann C. Klimentidis, Guilherme J. M. Rosa, Daniel Gianola, Nengjun Yi, and David B. Allison
A Comprehensive Genetic Approach for Improving Prediction of Skin Cancer Risk in Humans
Genetics December 2012 192:1493-1502

FUNDING: The authors acknowledge NIH grants R01GM077490, R01GM099992, R01GM101219 the Kraft grant, as well as the Wisconsin Agriculture Experiment Station for their financial support.

ABOUT GENETICS: Since 1916, Genetics has covered high quality, original research on a range of topics bearing on inheritance, including population and evolutionary genetics, complex traits, developmental and behavioral genetics, cellular genetics, gene expression, genome integrity and transmission, and genome and systems biology. Genetics, a peer-reviewed, peer-edited journal of the Genetics Society of America is one of the world?s most cited journals in genetics and heredity.

ABOUT GSA: Founded in 1931, the Genetics Society of America (GSA) is the professional membership organization for scientific researchers, educators, bioengineers, bioinformaticians and others interested in the field of genetics. Its nearly 5,000 members work to advance knowledge in the basic mechanisms of inheritance, from the molecular to the population level. The GSA is dedicated to promoting research in genetics and to facilitating communication among geneticists worldwide through its conferences, including the biennial conference on Model Organisms to Human Biology, an interdisciplinary meeting on current and cutting edge topics in genetics research, as well as annual and biennial meetings that focus on the genetics of particular organisms, including C. elegans, Drosophila, fungi, mice, yeast, and zebrafish. GSA publishes Genetics, a leading journal in the field and an online, open-access journal, G3: Genes|Genomes|Genetics.

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Genetics Society of America

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Monday, December 3, 2012

New Childrens Book For Memory Loss & Virtual Dementia Tours ...

Today they will talk about the book, MY NEW GRANNY and why did the Author and Illustrator ?felt it was an important book to write. They also talked with Julie Matysik the Editor at Sky Pony Press about her feelings about books like this ? is there a gap, a need for books pertaining to memory loss?

P.K. is founder and CEO of Second Wind Dreams?, an international non-profit organization whose aim is to enhance lives, engendering more staff involvement and community involvement resulting in a change in the perception of aging.

The Virtual Dementia Tour? is a company PK created which is used in 14 countries and 4 languages. VDT is a teaching tool used to help sensitize people to the plight of Dementia resulting in better care.

Join them To Learn!

Read more and listen:
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Attorney Christopher J. Berry is a Metro Detroit estate planning and elder law lawyer who helps families, seniors, veterans and business owners with their important legal needs. Oakland County estate planning lawyer, Christopher Berry is a partner in the Bloomfield Hills law firm of Witzke Berry PLLC. Mr. Berry practices in the areas ofestate planning, business, probate, veterans benefits & Medicaid planning. Follow Christopher on Twitter@chrisberryesq

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Counselor: Manning's history showed self-harm risk

FORT MEADE, Md. (AP) ? An Army private charged with sending U.S secrets to the website WikiLeaks had a history of suicidal thoughts and aloof behavior that outweighed a psychiatrist's opinion that he was no risk to intentionally hurt himself, a former counselor testified Sunday.

Army Staff Sgt. Ryan Jordan testified on the sixth day of a pretrial hearing for Pfc. Bradley Manning at Fort Meade, near Baltimore. The hearing is to determine whether Manning's nine months in pretrial confinement at the Marine Corps brig in Quantico, Va., were so punishing that the judge should dismiss all charges. The 24-year-old intelligence analyst is accused of sending hundreds of thousands of classified documents to the secret-spilling website in 2009 and 2010.

Jordan, a former counselor at Quantico, sat on a board that recommended to the brig commander in January 2011 that Manning remain in maximum custody and on injury-prevention status ? conditions that kept him confined to his cell 23 hours a day.

Jordan said under cross-examination by defense attorney David Coombs that besides the mental-health report, he considered evidence that Manning had contemplated suicide six to eight months earlier after his arrest in Iraq. The evidence included a noose Manning had fashioned from a bedsheet while confined in Kuwait, and a written statement he made upon arrival at Quantico in July 2010 that he was "always planning and never acting" on suicidal impulses.

Jordan acknowledged Manning had been a polite, courteous and nearly trouble-free detainee at Quantico.

"Wouldn't his past six months of performance be an indicator of his potential for future behavior?" Coombs asked. But Jordan maintained that Manning's unwillingness to converse with him and other brig staff was a warning sign he was at risk of self-harm.

Jordan said he considered the opinion of the brig psychiatrist, Navy Capt. William Hocter, that Manning was no longer at risk of self-harm. But Jordan said the weight he gave to Hocter's views was diminished because another detainee had recently killed himself after his custody status was reduced on Hocter's advice.

"I would consider it, but I would always consider it with care, sir," he told Coombs.

Earlier Sunday, the military judge said Manning's trial, previously set to begin Feb. 4, would be pushed back to sometime in March due to lengthy pretrial proceedings.

The hearing on Manning's confinement was to recess Sunday and resume Wednesday.

Manning is charged with 22 offenses, including aiding the enemy, which carries a maximum penalty of life in prison.

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/counselor-mannings-history-showed-self-harm-risk-175239354.html

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Kim Kardashian brings out fans, Islamists and police in Bahrain

MANAMA (Reuters) - U.S. television celebrity Kim Kardashian brought out screaming fans, angry Muslim hardliners and police throwing stun grenades on Saturday when she visited Bahrain to launch a milkshake franchise, witnesses said.

About 100 Sunni Salafists demonstrated with banners outside The Walk Bahrain, an upmarket mall in the capital Manama, after some MPs tried to block the visit over what they called her "bad reputation", according to a local newspaper.

Thousands of fans, who had paid up to 500 Bahraini dinars a ticket, broke into hysterical screams as the 32-year-old celebrity launched the Millions of Milkshakes franchise inside the mall.

Witnesses said police dispersed the demonstrators with stun grenades as the inauguration proceeded inside. There were no reports of casualties.

Kardashian stirred controversy even before she arrived in Bahrain from Kuwait, where she opened another store last week.

Hardline Sunni Muslim MPs presented a motion to parliament calling her "an actress with an extremely bad reputation", according to Bahrain's English language Gulf Daily News.

The assembly did not vote on the motion, the newspaper said.

Many Kardashian fans tweeted their displeasure, saying the "MPs should focus their time on solving key political, economic and social issues", the newspaper reported.

Bahrain, where the U.S. Fifth Fleet is based, is trying to overcome nearly two years of unrest among its majority Shi'ite Muslims demanding political reforms and equality with the Sunni Muslims who rule the kingdom. (Reporting by Hamad Mohammed; writing by Sami Aboudi; editing by Andrew Roche)

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/kim-kardashian-brings-fans-islamists-police-bahrain-022949192.html

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Garden Contingency Planning. ? Casaubon's Book

I probably won?t get to look at them until after Isaiah?s birthday and our Chanukah party next weekend, but the seed catalogs are piling up, and I?m starting to think about gardens again. ?I can?t wait to sink down into the couch with a stack of catalogs and dream.

This was a tough year for gardening ? I was already behind in early spring because of the final push to get _Making Home_ out. ?On May 1, K. and C. arrived, and it took the better part of a month before things normalized. ?That was ok, I thought, the fall garden will be SPECTACULAR, I?ll just put my energies there, and get serious about the garden on the first of July. ?Except, of course, a few days after the first of July, Baby Z. arrived.

Beyond the nigh-universal ?heat and drought, the main problem in my garden was the sleep deprivation of the gardener. ? K. and C. went home to family later in July, following weeks and weeks of full-tilt advocacy and work to get that accomplished. ?That devoured July. ?By August we were so TIRED that many things simply went by the wayside. ?It wasn?t an awful garden year, just not a fabulous one.

I don?t resent anything, though ? I?m so glad that Baby Z. got most of my time and attention ? we are fortunate that I had that luxury. ?If some zucchini turned into baseball bats and I ate more tomatoes fresh than I canned, if I didn?t get much but kale and spinach planted for fall, well, in the end, I?m grateful I had the capacity to turn outwards to others to fill in what I didn?t do myself.

I should say I?m looking forward to a much better garden this year, and I am. ?I am also, however, looking forward to one that doesn?t work out so well. ?By which I mean that I?m doing what I should have done all along ? contingency planning to optimize my garden for non-optimal conditions, in this case, a non-optimal gardener.

My garden has had a non-optimal gardener many years ? in fact, all of them. ?I went through three pregnancies during the summer. ?There was the year we lost Eric?s grandparents and much of the spring was taken up by grief and the sort of their things. ?There was the year I foolishly agreed to place the deadline for _A Nation of Farmers_ on May 31, meaning that peak planting season was spent with my staring at the computer and feeling guilty. ?There were years when we were sick or busy or away during a critical moment. ?In fact, I don?t think my garden has yet ever had the garden it deserves.

It is a beautiful patch of land, it deserves the kind of devoted, anal, obsessive gardener that never says ?Yeah, I?ll get at that tomorrow?or maybe the day after? or ?that?s good enough for me.? ?It definitely deserves a gardener better at keeping chickens out, one who pays more attention to aesthetics than practicality, and one who never thinks it is just too bloody hot to go face the weeds. ?Sadly, she?s not available or returning my calls. ?Instead, my garden gets me, the lazy, overly-busy gardener with grand ambitions for perfection and a high tolerance for imperfection ? a multiple personality gardener who never quite gets the balance all right.

I still have the grand ambitions, the desire for a thousand varieties, the plan for a perfect seed-saver?s garden, the goal of growing every herb and fruiting plant in nature. ?I like that part of my gardening self, the one whose reach exceeds her grasp. ?Without her, I wouldn?t have quinces or have coddled a maypop into producing for me in Zone 4. ? Without her I?d never have threshed my own oats or made ornamental borders of chili peppers and okra. ? Her ?too much is never enough? attitude (the same one my kids have towards sprinkles on ice cream) leads to good and interesting things ? she pushes all boundaries, always wants to try one more variety, one more new thing, to go bigger and better. ?This year, I resolve to give in to her, to try some new stuff, to add a new variety or two here and there, to get bigger in some respects. ?But she?s not the only part of my personality.

The other gardener in me is the one that is kinda lazy and really busy. ?I?ve got a book due to the publisher in February, carefully set before planting season begins. ?But that puts me editing in April and May. ?Baby Z. will still be a baby in the spring if he?s with us (and it is looking like he might be), and while he?s sleeping better, let me not be completely foolish here ? a crawling or toddling baby is still a very large hindrance in the garden.

I?m hoping I?ll have more children by then, and that could easily include toddlers or another baby. ?A new placement could easily come in the growing season, indeed, is more likely than not, and that changes things and takes a bit of time to reorient our lives around. ?Kids could go home, which also takes up time and emotion. ?The reality is that my life really isn?t all that stable, and that lack of stability makes gardening go up and down.

Now here?s a giant ?duh? moment ? I suddenly realized that this is normal. ?For the last 10 years, I?ve been serving my inner dream gardener ? the perfect one who does everything and wants to do everything. ?I?ve gotten used to failures, enough so that I expect them and I don?t beat myself up for them. ?But what suddenly struck me is that here I am, forty years old, I?ve never actually tried to plan a garden for the kind of gardener I AM rather than the one I want to be. ?I teach contingency planning for a living, and have contingency plans for my garden ? for drought, for flooding, for lack of access to inputs. ?The only contingency I?ve never planned for is the one that happens all the time ? that stuff happens.

Don?t get me wrong, I still think a gardener?s reach should exceed her grasp. ?By and large I?ve been glad that I?ve over-reached most years, because I think the net gain has been greater than the loss. ?Yes, sometimes things fail from lack of attention or my lack of ability to deal with them, but I always have a good and ample variety of crops. ?But what if I actually set up my garden to work better if I?m interrupted? ?What would that even look like? ?It suddenly struck me that I must be missing something.

So that?s my project for this year ? I?m working on redesigning my garden in layers, working outwards, partly on the old permaculture principle of zones (ie, closer in you put the things you need to get to daily, etc?) but also for more things that are self-operating, more things that are flexible in their harvest dates (for example varieties of beans and cherry tomatoes that mature over a longer stretch), ?and having a plan for when I?m not going to get to something ? for example, a quick cover crop mix at hand to get into beds I just won?t be planting. ?I?m also working on getting Phil-the-housemate into gardening on the theory that if I?m distracted, I might send him off to do my evil bidding in trade for my cooking him a portion of the proceeds. ?Hmmmm?.wait a minute!

I realize this is a classic physician, heal thyself moment, of course. ?In fact, I routinely tell garden design students not to overreach, to think about how they will really use the space, how to involve others so you don?t have to do it all yourself etc? ?I KNOW all this stuff ? it just never occurred to me that it should apply to me, because well, I?ve always liked having a lot of balls in the air, and the pleasures of an excess of ambition. ?But then, I realized I don?t really know if I would like constrained ambitions and more limited goals that I did a better job of accomplishing better, because well?it never occurred to me to try it. ?I have just assumed it probably wasn?t for me. ?I think it might be time to see, however, whether trying to accomplish more limited goals would be more fun than throwing a lot of balls in the air and seeing how many I actually catch ;-) .

So off I go to the graph paper. ?Anyone else making garden changes this year?

Sharon

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Source: http://scienceblogs.com/casaubonsbook/2012/12/02/garden-contingency-planning/

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How do you Unplug and How Should You Use Your Time Online ...

How do you manage internet time, and when do you know if you?re having too much internet? This article will answer all these questions for you, but first, let?s look at too much internet and its negative effects.

In this internet age, perhaps you can never go a day without going online. When you do login, what do you mostly spend your time on?

What is the large chunk of your time spent on in the internet? Is it browsing through your news feed and reading status updates of your friends? Is it watching videos? Is it reading articles? Is it playing a browser game? If you?re not sure, the next time you sit in front of the computer, bring a timer with you and record the time you spend online. Also, tally what you do with its corresponding time spent. If your results display a large part of your time on tasks that aren?t really necessary and what you call important, then, you might want to reinvent the way you manage your internet time.

Additionally, you might also like to look at how much time you spend on the internet. If it?s half or almost similar to the time you spend sleeping, then, you may want to cut down on your internet time.

Too Much Internet and Its Negative Effects

When is too much internet? You know it?s too much when you don?t really get much out of being online. The internet is supposed to be a convenient way to get information and to complete processes. But if you get more negative effects compared to the benefits, then, you are spending way too much time in front of the computer. What are these negative effects? There are several, but we?ll only discuss two main things that will directly affect you: sleep and productivity.

Lesser Sleep

The most likely instance that you are online is at night, because that?s the only time you have, if you have work or school during the day. Hence, if you spend a lot of time online, the most probable case is that you get less sleep.

Let?s say you get home at about 6 in the evening. You watch a little TV, eat dinner, and start your internet session at about 8 PM. You go ahead and do what you usually do: check your email, check your Facebook and Twitter, upload some pictures, watch videos, read some interesting articles, and so on. You enjoy what you?re doing, and before you know it, it?s already midnight. If you stop and go to sleep, you could still get a good six to seven hours of rest, but if you don?t and you still go on, you?ll sleep lesser than recommended, and that will hurt you the next day. Since you lack sleep, you won?t be in top condition to perform. Your focus won?t be as good and you?ll feel sleepy before the day ends. Additionally, if you make this a habit, it could affect your health as your body won?t be able to recharge at the time that it?s supposed to, because you?re awake.

Eats Productivity

While it is true that the internet was made to help make things faster, such as acquiring information, it can hurt your productivity. The main reason is because it is a source of distraction. The internet not only is a great source of information, but it also has a lot of other interesting and fun places to go to. You can play games, watch videos, listen to music, chat with friends, look at pictures, shop, and a whole lot of other fun things that will most likely distract you from what you really need to do. Hence, being online exposes you to tons of distraction, which you might not resist if you don?t have a good strategy of dealing with it.

For example, when you watch a video in Youtube, you tell yourself you?ll only watch this one, but while watching it, you notice something interesting on the side bar, so, after the video ends, you click on that video and watch it. Then, the same thing happens until you?ve watched about ten or more videos, when you initially only wanted to watch one. Let?s say each video is about 4 minutes, so if you?ve watched about ten, that would mean you wasted 40 minutes of your time, when you could have used that to finish your important tasks.

The same goes for Facebook. When you login, the first thing that you probably check is your notifications. You look through all of them and give additional comments. Then, when you?re about to close it, a notification appears on your wall, so you check it out. Then another one comes, and another, and another. It will go on and on, until you?ve noticed that you?ve made a chatroom out of a single wall post or uploaded photo, or you?ve checked through all your news feed and replied to most of them. It?s a big time hugger and it?s incredibly magnetic, no doubt about it.

Now that you know the negative effects of too much internet, what should be the next course of action? You can do two things: start with unplugging for a day or two: look at life without internet and then, reinvent the way you use your internet time, or immediately start with the latter.

Unplugging

I suggest to start with unplugging, because it will help you see what life is like if you remove the internet out of the picture. This will also help motivate you to spend less time on the internet and spend more on the outside world, doing things that matter.

The least you can do this is for a day. You essentially just have to turn off the computer and remove yourself in front of the PC. You can do whatever you want as long as it does not involve interacting with a device, such as playing with your game console or watching TV. Take this day off and relax or get some sleep. You could even read a book, go out and hang out with friends, go to the beach, or start a new hobby.

At the end of this exercise, reflect on your experience. What positive thing did you experience that you weren?t able to when you were logged in? Keep that in mind and then proceed to managing your internet time.

Managing Internet Time

To manage your internet time, you basically need to do two things: to set your priorities and to set a time limit. Both need to be done in the order presented to set an appropriate time limit for each.

Set Your Priorities

In order to manage your time, you must first have a clear idea of your priorities, specifically what you want to accomplish in the time you use the internet. Is it for work? Is it to have fun? Is it to learn something new? Is it to communicate with friends? List them down in order, with the first one being your number one priority. These items will be used in setting a time limit, so keep them.

Set a Time Limit

Once you?ve got your priorities straightened out, set a time limit for your usage of the internet, so that you can control what you do and how much time you spend on them. If you don?t have a limit, you might just go on aimlessly surfing online for hours on end and forget to focus on what?s important, such as the tasks that you need to accomplish. This limit depends on the tasks that you have lined up to do. So, give a rough estimate of how long it will take you to complete them, if these are the only things you?ll do. That means, you won?t check other websites that are not related to work. Then, set another hour or less for the other things you want to do online. For example, two hours can be a good time limit if you only need to do a few things such as research, check your email, and watch the new video of a certain Youtuber.

Next, divide your time limit among the items on the list. You can choose to divide it evenly or have more time for items that you consider as top priorities, such as items 1 and 2. You can then distribute it evenly for the rest. Let?s say you have three items on your list: work, fun, and communicate with friends. If you have two hours to spare, you can assign an hour for work, thirty minutes for fun, and another thirty minutes for communication. Remember that this is merely an example, and these time limits may even be too much, so think of a range that is efficient and is enough to fulfill your needs.

In addition to setting the time limit, you must ensure that you follow and stick to it so that you can free up some time for yourself, and for some productive activity. Setting up an alarm that will go off when the time is up is a great idea. Once you hear the alarm, logout and turn off your computer unit. No extensions and no more excuses. You?ve reached your time limit and you should stop whatever you?re doing.

Now that you have spare time, use it wisely. Do something productive with it. You can schedule an activity with your friends and family, decide to start a new hobby, or get the sleep that you need, especially if it?s already late. Take note that you?re managing your internet time because you want to be productive while doing so, and you want to free some time for yourself. Hence, be creative with what you use this free time on, and prioritize your health above anything else. If it?s late and you need to sleep, you don?t have to force yourself to spend time with friends or work on a hobby. Just go to bed and close your eyes.

About the author: Jorge Blanco is a personal development junkie, expert on goal setting, time, project, and life management, a master strategist and planner, and a passionate entrepreneur. He is the author of Design Your Life: 5 Steps To Create The Life You Want, a complete guide to making a positive change in your life, and living a life by design, and the Goal Setting Workshop, a blog about goal setting, productivity, and personal development.

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Competitive Anxiety: "Redpoint Anxiety" | Eva L?pez. Personal ...


Imagine that you are working or onsighting a route that will be your new maximum grade:

How do you manage those attempts?
Have you ever felt that you fell because you couldn't control your anxiety?
Reversely, have you sent a route because you managed to stay focused and motivated and performed at your 100%?
How significant is that particular try or redpoint to you?
Are there any thougts or external factors that make you more tense? Do you know how to identify them when they appear?
What consequences does anxiety have over your performance?
Do you have any strategies to mitigate or take advantage of that tension?
The society we live in defines success as realizing a concrete result or obtaining certain status or tangible goods: earning the right kind of money, getting some job position, buying a house or driving certain car...
In sports this translates into winning/losing terms, an this way victory is demanded for fulfilling some political, financial, social or even emotional agenda for those who seek social recognition. Failing that, scholarships are withdrawn, coaches are fired, and, even worse, the word failure is brought up. Soccer and olympic athletes are obvious examples.

Training for the sake of self-improvement does not have the same appeal. For example, a climber can feel compelled to climb certain grade, achieving some result in competition or doing some renowned testpiece.
The problem is that all this pressure leads many athletes to -mistakenly- believe that they need to prepare their mind for maximum performance. In fact, what is really needed more often than not, is keeping at bay that pressure and anxiety.

A certain degree of acitvation is good for performance, but the key is determining what our right level of activation is, because an imbalance in this factor often becomes a problem. Actually, one of the more frequent causes that athletes report for not being able to reach their full potential is the difficulty of coping with competitive anxiety.
Assuming this approach, what we really need many times is to prepare our minds to avoid instability.

There are climbers who get to the crux and blank out, or get too tense and miss, that get distracted, or picture themselves failing and fall after reaching without conviction for the next hold. They often send the route when they feel very tired, or just want to "clean the route" or "train" in the route. They have unconsciously used an strategy for climbing with less pressure, and it has worked for them.

During the next entries we will talk about the perception and correct channeling of anxiety, the most common sources of stress, effective methods when facing a challenging route or a competition, and how all of this is linked to self-confidence and performance.

NEXT ENTRIES

Competitive Anxiety: Making sense of your Stage Fright - Interpretation of anxiety symptoms
Competitive Anxiety: What does stress you? (I)
Competitive Anxiety: What does stress you? (II)
Competitive Anxiety: Coping Strategies (I)
Competitive Anxiety: Coping Strategies (II)
Competitive Anxiety: Coping Strategies (III)

Source: http://en-eva-lopez.blogspot.com/2012/12/competitive-anxiety-redpoint-anxiety.html

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